The picture above reminds me to many things that happened in my life. From my endless efforts to find the right guy for me till the very time that I broke down into pieces for choosing the wrong one and finally finding and hooking myself to the perfect one of all. Well, whatever it is I would definitely say that all the saddening journeys that I walked through in my life, had somehow lead me to the best. I agree that, I suffered a lot while going through hardship after breaking up, and being cheated with the name of love, but I would also never deny that, I had changed into a better person after those terrifying experiences. The quote that sounds, "People learn from mistakes" was absolutely true in my case. I learnt that, love can't be find, it should happen by itself. That means, we should not SEARCH for our other half! When the right time comes, that person would certainly come and stand in front of you! Believe me, that would be the most happiest moment that you will ever experience in your life! However, there will also be some who would come and go in your life, and that is when you should be extra careful in choosing the right one. The principle is simple, you have all the rights to mingle with whoever you like, but you should know your LIMITS. Be friends first, then move on slowly to the next stage. Remember, if he/she in your other half, then it WILL happen and last forever. So, don't lose hope.
So, who is my other half? As I mentioned earlier, I did found my man after six years. As any other couples out there,we too started as strangers who became friends in facebook (he added me first). I approved his request after 2 months I guess. Then, after chatting for 4 months plus, we exchange numbers and started our phone conversations. From my talk with him, I got to know his characteristics a little bit, and more to that, he too shared his pass love experience and so did I. That was how we became closer. Yet, since I was busy with my studies and my practicals that time and also due to my concept of "not trusting any guys", I started to step back when I realized that he liked me. I told myself not to fall into the trap of love anymore and I replied him with a harsh NO and sometimes it will be added on with some hurtful scoldings as well. Pheww...regardless to how I treated him, he still came after me and cared for me. I still remember his words of "Hema, its ok that you don't love me or don't like me, but I care for you. So message me when you have reached your destination, I need to know ok and I'm sorry for making you uncomfortable". Those words were doubtlessly sweet and during that time, his words annoyed me and I shouted at him back but he never failed to get what he wanted done. This was one of the many incidents that pushed me towards him out of the barbed cage that I put myself in.
True love never fails, and I witness that in my love life. Each time we fight, he will be the first one to give in. He also never fails to be there for me whenever I needed him. The last year of me in my college was indeed the best year of my college life although it was hectic than all the years before. Whenever I was down or I feel demotivated, he will the one to come and motivate me. His words were the petrol for my happiness and my success. I love him so much and I am proud enough to tell that, I FOUND MY OTHER-HALF! I am happy, and I am changing to be a better person for my other-half, and that is because he is the worth of it. Likely, to you who is reading this entry of mine, all my best wishes to you to find your other half. He/She is just going to be out there somewhere. Remember do not look for him/her, when the right time comes, that person would appear and "TADAAA" there you go exploring the beautiful moments in life together!
p/s- To my man: I really love you so much! I cried while writing this entry thinking of all the sacrifices you have made for our love so far. You changed my perception of life and you made life more meaningful to me. Love u bby.
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